DISQUS

Roxychic · 1 year ago

my partner [at the time] always asked what I wanted him to do [after a while], and that was cool but sometimes I wanted him to be creative on his OWN and show me something new that I could learn [from him]. but I guess there's nothing wrong with an attentive lover. the book idea sounds splendid but I don't know many guys [to my knowledge] that would anything to do with a book during sex. unless its the kama sutra. lol

VIChick · 1 year ago

I am guilty of doing most of those things. When you get into a routine it is hard to get out of it. The passionate book idea sounds amazing. Like i always say if you can make love to my mind I am all yours.

BlogXilla · 1 year ago

Mind sex can take place in numerous ways, either reading or just a staring match. There are a lot of ways to get mind fcked

VIChick · 1 year ago

Anything a man can do to stimulate my mind turns me on. My boo got me because of that very reason.

Thoney Gangstasweet · 1 year ago

i agree. being the control freak that i am i have a hard time just humpin and gettin anything from it. when a man touches me mentally things are muuuuch more intense! i and the queen of intense stares or reading with my partner.....good times man good times...

OneWaYWeeZy · 1 year ago

I think its necessary to switch it up sometimes, especially if you in an exclusive relationship. I dont know about ya'll but I'd get bored doing the same thing every time. But I think there are alot different things that can be explored, its all about ones ambition in the bedroom.

BlogXilla · 1 year ago

true indeed thats' my point switch it up but it's easy to get caught up in repetitive sex when you're in an exclusive relationship is it not?

OneWaYWeeZy · 1 year ago

very true.....like i said you need to be an ambitious individual in the bedroom. being adventurous would help too.....

Cool · 1 year ago

LOL

Squishy · 1 year ago

I had sex with my man in the back of my car in a semi-public place and I couldn't believe how hot it was. The thought of gettin caught made it even better. Plus the cramped space meant we were completely pressed up against each other. It was hot and steamy and all u could hear was skin slappin and heavy breathin. I LOVED it. It was nice to take things outa the bedroom for a change.....

BlogXilla · 1 year ago

It almost always is... I got stories for days lol

Squishy · 1 year ago

you should share them........ i could always use new ideas. lol

black_barbi510 · 1 year ago

I need some new ideas too. I get so bored. me and my boo used to do it everywhere, but now I'm noticing he's real comfortable and the bed is just fine for him. I need more than that.

BlogXilla · 1 year ago

Go for a ride, and give him some brain. or just take him in the middle of some place where you can pull it off. If you're down i doubt he's going to object. If he does then go to the bathroom and come back and put your panties in his pocket. Let him know as soon as you get through the door it's on and popping.

Thoney Gangstasweet · 1 year ago

i've done both of these and believe u me it was so worth it! i love trying crazy things in restaurants. i have long legs and am a fan of the toe job [extend ur legs under the table and play with his manxilla, maintain a str8 face]. if ur man has a thing for feet this will surely turn him on! we were discussing stocks and politics and he jizzed in his pants! HA! lovely!

practice giving great head,. recently a throwback d-i reminded me of when i gave him head the entire ride home from a raheem devaughn[download breathe, perfect humpin song] concert to the burbs[bout an hour]. it wasn't so intense that he came,just enough to make him extremely hot. we barely speak outside of the bedroom and the memories live on. when u do something SOOOO DIFFERENT or extreme it inevitably makes ur boo or humpmate love ya that much more.....

black_barbi510 · 1 year ago

thanks xilla...thats whats up. I'm doing one of those tonight.

BlogXilla · 1 year ago

great let me know all the details... you got my email right?

black_barbi510 · 1 year ago

yeah i got it...

Squishy · 1 year ago

I was with a guy that didn't like to be confined to the bedroom either. We did it in nearly everyroom in his house while never missing a beat. He carried me around the house and stopping to bang me against random things in the house. The table, refrigerator, walls, the front door, we stopped once and he ate the "kitty" on the stairs and picked me right back up and continued our journey. He has some strong arms and a lot of stamina. lol

kiki · 1 year ago

guilty guilty guilty of all 3 been with my man almost 15yrs and for the last 5 u put the nail in the coffin imma follow up on all 3

NJoiMe · 1 year ago

Well sometimes it's not all about the way you're having sex or the place but it's about the other things you do. Like teasing your man. One day I was riding down the freeway with my ex. I had my seat back a bit, right leg on the dash, and left hand down my jeans. He got so turned on just watching me and sucking my fingers, not to mention just knowing that his good & saintly woman was also turning on the dude in the truck next to us. When we got out of the car it was on! LOL. That was years ago. Now I have a surprise for my current boyfriend's birthday which is this Saturday. If he trusts me then I'll blow his mind. It's not what ya'll think. No strap ons or anything like that. Just some good ol' fun. So this Gemini is going to wow her Sagitarius man and give him some like he's never had before, but it's cool cause I'm in love. No inhibitions right? ;)

msstarr · 1 year ago

cant live a boring sex life...wit my man it used to be tha same ol missionary first, doggy second, etc...he finally realized I was bored wit it and switched it up..

..and lol @ tha carlton reference...memories

ashley · 1 year ago

so off topic: your my internet boyfriend. You're the only man blog I read . lol its just a web thing... :) i had 2 let u know keep it up

BlogXilla · 1 year ago

why thank you very much ashley

p-lo · 1 year ago

when i was with my ex...dispite our long distance relationship...we started out right, we used to do the phone thing (emails and iming each other sexual scenario)..i would be in class and my ex and i would have this sexual scenario..it was very excited at first and althought my ex stopped doing it and I would write and texted sexual things to my ex's phone but my ex didn't get the point..or didn't want to try to get the hint..and we would see each other like once every three months,..i live in NY and my ex lives in TX..so the last time I seen my ex was when we was in ATL together in aug. , I wanted to try something new since we don't see each other like that (in the shower) and guess what? my ex was like "i don't feel comfortable, it's not that"..ughhh!!..so we had to go on to our usual same 'ol routine...
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