DISQUS

HeadMistress · 1 year ago

This is a great list, however Miss Jenee has a point, what we as women have to do is RECOGNIZE the MEN who deserve the above treatment and do it for them.

The truth is with the exception of a few, Miserable For No Real Reason B*tches, most women are willing to do all of the above without hesitation, so men, if your woman doesn't fall into the MFNRRB category and she's not doing the above, it may be you...sorry but true...

On the other hand, women, if you're a MFNRRB, change your attitude.

For the rest of us we need to let go of what the last n*gga did and stop worrying about "playing ourselves" - just do it, without hesitation tho, doing it begrudgingly is worse than not doing it at all...he'd rather you not do it than do it and complain or throw it in his face or rolling your eyes and suckin your teeth during the commission of your "show of appreciation"

Angel_1 · 1 year ago

Miss Jenee & HeadMistress have a point....

We as men, will make a real woman perform 1-20 on this list like she is in a modeling competition and play her...hard

But sometimes, performing this list without ever needing a list in the first place, will catch a man like a fish

Then you gut him up and then you'll be featured on "Snapped".....

#1 is very important....

If he is a good man, then by all means this list is all the things and a few more are very true .....

Now we need a list for "20 ways to show appreciation for your broke, jobless, homeless, car less, but sex is the bomb, man"....

So you'll appeal to all types of men.....

yes · 1 year ago

uh hell naw, that would be a fuck buddy

Miss.Jenee · 1 year ago

Yeah yeah.. Women do this ish.. and still get played.. lol..

Ant_from_Chi · 1 year ago

What, no comments on this. Guys come on. 1, 2,6,7,8 like a mufukka,10 please,16 my favorite. I love watching porn with a woman. It's basically the only time I really enjoy it. I really only watch it for about 10 maybe 15 minutes. between watching somebody else bump it and running my hnds across the woman i'm with. Need I say more? And 20. They say the way to a mans heart is through his stomach and I have always been one to nbelieve that if my woman can't cook for me than she don't really give a shit about me. Don't get me wrong I can and do burn inthe kitchen, but when a woman cares enough about me to make sure that I am nourished it does something for me. Please don't let me be the only cat speaking up on this. The Sista's always repping on this site. What the deal is????

Mrs. Carter · 1 year ago

You are right about that. We as women can do a better job sometimes at taking care of our man. I think that a little more TLC here and there can never hurt the relationship.

Carmen Sandiego · 1 year ago

This is a good list!

VIChick · 1 year ago

Good list. # 16 I have NO problem with. My addiction to porn is kind of sad

ChucksFavorite · 1 year ago

good list! don't have a problem with anything on there.....do and have done all of the above. and I have never had a man leave me ;-)

Art2dope · 1 year ago

all i have to say is... are you single?

Nicki Sunshine · 1 year ago

Great list!

Napps126 · 1 year ago

perfect!

Obama's Cousin · 1 year ago

Wow!

Ay yo Zilla, post her email so I can propose to this young woman. This post almost brought tears to my eyes. LOL! Dang.

Tiledo · 1 year ago

lol. women do this n still get played

HappyToBeNappy · 1 year ago

If you got a good dude, all this shit comes natural. Most of us wouldn't even think twice about doing these things (or have to be told we should be doing it) when we have a good man. The reason we don't do it all the time is because a women is never really sure if she's got a good man. We be dating yall "representative" for months before the real you comes out. So why do all this shit just to find out months later that your man aint shit???

I'm only gonna do so much for a dude before I know what he's really about.

Alex_Delarge_From_Liveagl.com · 1 year ago

After, reading this list, I feel like I am different dude because somethings I just dont like for example;

don't watch porn with me..WDF thats oddd

don't wash my car, no offence, and it is not sexiest thing, but I don't think anybody could wash the car as good as the owner..

if she is wifey, I wouldnt like her to swallow, I donno...suck and spit it out..but thats just me

HeadMistress · 1 year ago

Interesting, Alex

your first two I can see, doesn't seem odd but why no swallowing for wifey? Not really odd, I guess, just unusual to hear a guy say that, just curious to the thought / reason behind it...

Mrs. Carter · 1 year ago

I think that you're the kind of guy who might go back and cheat on his girl. Ok the first two things were kind of unnecessary but swallowing??? WTF Most men would love their wives or wifey to get a little freaky for them sometimes. Men do this all the time. They want their wives to be the innocent little homemaker and they still go out and bang the freak. That doesn't make any sense to me!

404 · 1 year ago

I co-sign Shonda. Excellent post. But do know there will still be those who just don't get it....